Be nice to people: Do not spout hateful rhetoric regarding race, sexuality, gender identity, religion, disability, etc. Do not threaten violence on others. Do not encourage others to inflict harm on themselves (ex. telling someone they should kill themself).

Be a law-abiding user: Ita Hearts is hosted in the United States. Therefore, you may not share content or information that is in violation of U.S federal law. In short, don’t talk about plans for mass violence or share leaked government data. It ruins the vibe.

Don’t be a creep: Though the server gladly welcomes discussion of adult content, you may face a permanent ban if you make unwelcome sexual comments or share sexual content without permission. You will be banned immediately and reported to the proper authorities if you are: found to be communicating in a sexual manner with underage users, sharing CSAM, or sharing written/artistic sexual content of real-life, identifiable minors. Pornography of an anime girl is fine; pornography of an existing child actor (regardless of their current age) is not.

Respect others privacy: Do not attempt to dox or otherwise gather personal information of users beyond their screen name. Respect peoples boundaries on what information they are willing to share. Likewise, do not share highly personal information such as your financial information, address, etc. Abide by basic internet safety guidelines.